Who doesn’t like shopping? Everyone does
even if they preach otherwise. I can recall the time when, from needle to
furniture, everything was purchased by my mother and markets were somewhat
alien places for the rest of us. Then after Masters, shopping germs grew in me
and now you can assume safely that every minute I am connected to Internet, my
wish list prolongs.
In
the early days (almost a year and half), I always believed why buy expensive
things when you can get 2 or even 3 in the same price at slightly compromised
quality. Honestly, it was for me the better utilization of every penny I spent.
So, I was quick in buying low quality, inexpensive items that falsely seems the
right thing to do with a limited budget. I suffered from dissatisfaction of
impulse buying, not having enough, over spending, eating up my savings, and
above all crowded closets. In other words, I faced the syndrome of having
closets full but didn’t have anything to wear.
WHY I STOPPED PREFERRING
QUANTITY OVER QUALITY?
a.
Quality items discourage the behavior of impulsive buying.
Otherwise, discounted prices tempt and you end up buying something only because
it was cheap not because it was needed. Result? Crowded drawers and still not
enough space to store.
b.
Less
is always more: I would quote example of clothes. Last
year I purchased several inexpensive dresses that soon either lost their color,
got ripped from places, or became so lousy that I didn’t like them wearing at
all after two three times. I had them hanged in closet but hardly ever touched
them during due seasons. As a result, I had to give proper attention to my
closet to keep it maintained but on occasions I used to be totally blank as to
what to wear.
Opposed to this were the dresses that I purchased with hand on my
heart and a dent on the pocket. But they were stylish, had amazing cuts,
quality fabric, and I used them for no less than 5 years. If I average out
their cost on 5 years, they turn out to be far inexpensive than the cheap
clothes that didn’t endure even a season. Many of them are still in tip top
shape. Now, I have started preferring trinkets that may not be many in numbers
but I absolutely love them. Less is always more.
c.
Fade
away careless attitude: When you know, you pushed yourself to limits to purchase something;
you go extra miles to take care of it. I always feel lazy after 9-6 day job. If
I am wearing cheapo dress, chances are my inner voice will convince my mind
that it’s not worth changing dress and I’ll sleep in the same. Believe me, it
disgusts me equally. But, if I spent fortune on something, I’ll try to take
extra care of it. Quality items always compel me to live a heedful life.
d.
To
plan properly: It’s the extension of the first point I made. Impulsive shopping
can cost you a lot as it deprives you of the benefit of planning, making price
comparisons, and sleeping over your decisions to determine if you actually need
that item. Also, you don’t think through whether it goes along with your style
or not. And, you buy one shampoo after the other, one moisturizer after the
other, more foundations, more handbags, and more clothes and so on. Spending
more on a thing doesn’t make it a quality item. Similarly, with proper planning
you can buy classic items on sales. Just little bit of research will make all
the difference.
MY RULE:
Rules discipline our behavior and help us
stick to our goals. After opting for quality instead of quantity, I know I
might not get everything I want. I have set a new shopping rule:
1.
I set aside 30% of
my disposable income from every source as savings which I don’t touch. By
disposable income I mean that after tax income that I am left with after
contributing in household expenses.
2.
Rest of the 70% is
my shopping budget that I hold back for two months. I now shop every two
months. During this time, I window shop, I research, I make comparisons, I
sleep over my decisions, I ask friends, I wait for sale, I evaluate my personal
style, I read magazines, I look for reviews, I scan blogs. At the end of two
months, I have sizable budget and a completely planned list.
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